Friday, March 25, 2016

March 21

3/21 was World Down syndrome day.  Surprisingly, the very thought of a special day to celebrate the amazing individuals with the extra 21 chromosome was slightly controversial, as well as the videos used to celebrate and spread awareness.  I have to say that when you stop to look at intentions, I don't think there was a negative one in the bunch.  So, we chose to celebrate the day just like we do everyday that extra chromosome has fit like a glove into our lives.  With B being B and us being us.  Trying, struggling, succeeding, failing.  Our Girl leads with her heart, lives in the present moment, accepts, loves and doesn't worry about people's intentions. Without her we (our family) would be less compassionate, less giving, less aware of differences and what is possible,  Most importantly, she can love and be loved.  Overcoming attitudes is the hard part, The Loving is the easy part.

One day we won't need a designated day to show respect to our fellow humans because it will be our default behavior to treat others with dignity and compassion.
Let's celebrate a group of humans who deserve the same love as anyone else. And let's do it everyday.
-Chris (Special Books for Special Kids)

and this video was my favorite:






Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Out like a Lion

March, a month traditionally in the in between of Winter and Spring, traditional has been a slower month.  This year, as in every month, seems busier than ever.  Striking a balance between everything we want to do seems crazy at times so I love and cherish the regular days that we can all just "chill"
 


 He finished his car at the last minute and came in the middle of the pack, the process, the time spent nurturing relationships and the value of making something makes it all worth it. 


 Don't you just love this teachers way of celebrating birthdays?  Promoting kindness in the classroom for the win.


 Basketball season complete.  On deck......Lax.

 He celebrated his 9th birthday in style over two weekends, with cousins and with friends and with MAD SCIENCE!



 swim season complete! 
He made states yet another year!  This sport has taught him the value of hard work.  The support he gets from friends and coaches makes him feel really good.  Many more meets in our future.

Another (small scale) Maple syrup season has come and gone.  Really, there is nothing else that tastes like it.  Aside from that, We've been putting our advocacy hats on at school, and really learning through all the struggles. AND getting ready for some really big transitions in said schools which really has mama on edge.  Thank god for running, friends and a few choice beverages which help to get us through.  This Sprng snow (and snow days) aren't helping!  Happy SPRING y'all!

Tuesday, February 23, 2016

Winter Break 2016 (Photo heavy)


 Our little adventure started early on a Saturday morning.  We were happy we were also able to help a neighbor out with a ride to the airport as well.  We carried everything on....it really is the way to go. 
 We flipped flopped seats with each airplane, to maximize our window sitting experience.
 This one was the most excited about the "beverage service"

 When we arrived at the Island the wait in line for customs was huge.  Hours.  Suddenly, after we had waited about an hour, a security guard pointed to us and took us out of line, right up to the front.  NO idea why, we didn't ask. Logistically this was the best trip we have ever been on.  No delays, no problems putting our luggage in the overhead, no problems with security.  The Dominicans we very nice, kind, and courteous people.  They always did what they said they were going to, no surprises.
 Our place was amazing, 3 bedrooms, 3 baths, laundry, full kitchen and a huge balcony with a grill overlooking the pool, beach and palm trees. There were restaurants, a grocery market and shops within a 5 minute walking distance.  there was a bar and snack shop at the beach. There was security at the road and on the beach.  They cleaned the grounds, beach and pool daily or several times a day. It was quiet and the kids had the pool all  to themselves most late afternoons.  For an island Vacation, it was just right for us. 



 And the weather, OMG.  Sunny and 85 times 7 days and nights.  A few quick passing showers one afternoon and evening.  One day of a little breeze. Just totally amazing.
 Oh, the blue, blue warm water and hours and hours spent body surfing and swimming in the waves.  Pure joy.
 and homemade Pina Coladas by the pool with a good book (I finished 2!).   Ahhhhh.....
 We broke down and bought a family Go Pro.  Mostly cause it was an amazing deal at Dicks Sporting Goods and mostly cause we have jam packed adventures planned for the next few years.  WE had a great time with it.




 The bracelets got us in and out and on our private beach
 sleeping in every day was the best....no schedule at all.  Wake up, put bathing suit on, visit beach and pool, come back for lunch, put another bathing suit on, sit in shade by beach and pool.  Swim in waves.  Eat dinner, relax and listen to music and the waves with a drink on the balcony. Sleep.  Repeat x7.









 Coming back in the evenings and going relaxing on the balcony and dressing up and going out to dinner was my favorite. Oh, and the warm weather and the Peach nectar juice and Pina Coladas.  The worst : the grocery store,  the customs line, and doing our dinner dishes.

Josh  best: riding the waves
          worst: the customs line

T         best:
            worst:

B         Best: The pool
            Worst: When the waves at the beach knocked me over

L         best: everything
           worst: the airport line
 We visited a couple of the local restaurants where knowing Spanish was kind of a must. We failed miserably. 

 naps were the best.

 and the sunrises. 

 And the snorkeling Catamaran adventure where they were brought to a giant ocean "pool"



 Wild Parrots
 Family time beach walks were the best.



 Exchange rate 1:46


 Treasure hunting.


 We were so sad to leave the amazing weather.  The morning we left we sat outside for breakfast and took in the last of the ocean breezes.  I can still smell the tropics.




 The flight home was a breeze, we arrived early even.  Unheard of.  Hello Cold Portland. the kids were great travelers.  Really, I had very little complaints about any issues they had.  They are getting to the ages now where handling a little discomfort is ok and manageable for the sake of fun.  They can see the light at the end of the adventure tunnel. We committed right then and there to spend more money on travel vs. material things from now until the kids leave home.   Here's to many more family adventures to come.