Saturday, May 14, 2016

a week in the Life Saturday



 This is Saturday.....




 Saturdays are for sleeping in....(who am I kidding even at the ungodly hour I went to bed last night, I can't sleep in)
 Saturdays are for lingering a little longer....

 Saturdays are for....reading and comics and lounging in our jammies all morning.

 Saturdays are for coffee
 and for tea and hanging around the kitchen bar for conversations.
 Saturdays are for leaving some chores until later to get outdoors to do those chores.   Usually when our outdoors looks good out indoors doesn't.
 Saturdays are for sidewalk chalk and stuffed animals.

 Saturdays are for doggie belly rubs
 Saturdays are for lacrosse games where the whole family goes to watch and cheer.






 Saturdays are for scoring 4 goals and for feeling proud.

 Saturdays are for late lunches and popsicles.
 Saturdays are for pressure washing, and for breaking things and running to the hardware store and Lowe's.

 Saturdays are for teaching and for learning.  I want to remember how he patiently taught her, encouraged her, and helped her with every step of the way with no adult involvement.  I want to remember that I get to see this side of him because I stick around and choose to look for it and see it.  I want to remember that he is messy and complicated (like all of us) but wise beyond his years in accepting it.  He's a great kid but often misunderstood.  I'm so glad he's here to teach me these important things.

 Saturdays are for getting along with your big brother for very short periods as long as there is a common interest like skateboarding or rubiks cubes.

 Saturdays are for sprinklers.



 and skateborading
 and family togetherness.

 and all sitting down at the same table at the same time for a dinner cooked out on the grill.

Saturdays are for chiilaxin.  This was Saturday.  Love Saturdays.

Friday, May 13, 2016

A week in the Life Friday

 The reason Why: This is Friday.  The day starts with snuggles.  The littlest boy always gets up at 6 am no matter what.  I'm so happy I don't have to give up this snuggle  time quite yet. 


The reason Why:  all of us.  One of my favorites of the week.  The kitchen bar is pretty much our gathering spot in the mornings. 

 J helps with the morming bringing to the bus stop duties. 






 The reason Why: getting out for a run on the trail with one of my best freinds  We've talked through some serious stuff on these runs.  Better than therapy.



The reason Why: getting all the chores done before the shower. 


The reason why: sometimes I get addicted to checking my phone too much.  (you know, cause Dopamine).  this quote came up on my Insta which is so, so true right now.


 The reason Why: I so love how she leaves him a note every single week about I love you and making her an egg sandwich.  He eats it right up.
 Getting ready for work which is such a drag most weeks on a Friday afternoon.


 the reason Why: My seat for the night.  It ended up being a really bad night (Friday the 13th!!) and I didn't get home until almost 2 am.  I frustrated and tired and ready to cry and quit as I headed out the door. Sometimes I would love to make a change, but there is a lot of "stuckness" to being 40.  Just keeping it real.  That was Friday.